Oftentimes our fears and our worries tend to get in the way. And so we fail to see the bigger picture that there is so much to life than fulfilling all our desires.
More than anything else, having the proper mindset towards life can help us make the most of it. And it starts from getting rid of these three mind trash you might be guilty of keeping:
1) The Wrong Mindset About Yourself
The recurring thought that you are not good enough is a lie. Let go of it. Because the moment you start believing this lie is the moment you start becoming it.
This is the reason why it's always important to know & remember who you are & where your identity lies. Unless we learn to accept that our status, grades/jobs, religion, and wealth don't define us, these things will continue to overcome and control our lives. And such life only revolves around the fear of losing these things.
2) The Wrong Motivations
What's the reason why you're doing the things you do? Why you're aiming for that grade or promotion? Why you keep sticking with the wrong set of friends / relationships?
Figure out the why's and start letting go of the wrong motives that inhibit you & other people from growing. Whatever you do, make it your aim to build others up along with you. Know your purpose and start doing things for the right reasons. You may incur as many mistakes along the way, yet fear will always be far from someone who has a pure heart.
3) The Wrong Attitude Towards Success & Failures
Find comfort in the face of failure. Do not be afraid of making mistakes. Success is not about taking hold of everything you wish for or desire. It's about learning to accept that some things aren't just for you. And it actually takes a leap of faith to believe God for greater things -- regardless of the fact that it may not come in the form of what we wish for.
talk about what's on point, this song is so 2013 yet it still gets me. Let go.